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Countdown to Christmas 2025: “Thou Shalt LOVE, Not Hate” — Day Twelve 12/12/25

From December 1-25, I’ll be sharing a quote and its truth from John Fugelsang’s Separation of Church and Hate: A Sane Person’s Guide to Taking Back the Bible from Fundamentalists, Fascists and Flock-Fleecing Frauds, the book Robert and I are currently and fascinatingly reading.

An odd Advent Calendar, of sorts.

Fugelsang offers a bit of humor today, alongside a truthful point about anti-gay thought. He asks:

  • “Best of all, do the homophobes kiss each other whenever they meet?
  • Because they must, according to Romans 16:16. That’s where Paul instructs all real Christians to greet one another with a custom reflecting the familial nature of early Christian communities: ‘Greet one another with a holy kiss.’
  • The holy kiss was a greeting in many cultures of the ancient Mediterranean world, signifying peace, respect, and community.
    For Paul, this must have been a very important custom of his time, because he writes about it much more than he writes about gay people.
  • So every Christian man who uses Romans to justify homophobia is biblically obliged to start kissing every Christian dude he knows, every time they meet.
  • Pucker up.” p. 133

4 thoughts on “Countdown to Christmas 2025: “Thou Shalt LOVE, Not Hate” — Day Twelve 12/12/25

  1. Oh this is sharp, witty, and right on the nose — exactly the kind of humor that reveals a much deeper truth. You highlighted Fugelsang’s point so well: when people weaponize scripture selectively, the contradictions become almost comically obvious. Your “odd Advent Calendar” idea is brilliant too… it turns reflection into a daily nudge toward compassion, clarity, and maybe even a little laughter.

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