Posted in Life and Death

Goodbye, Sweet Benny

This morning Robert and I had to “put down” our beloved Benny. He has been “going downhill“ (how did we come up with all these euphemisms relating to death?) for quite a while now. This last week Benny, quite the senior citizen at 17 1/2, became noticeably lethargic, sleeping basically all the time, having difficulty breathing, and showing no interest in his food or his water, alerting us, per our vet’s advice, that the time had come. (Benny had progressive throat cancer.)

Robert and I will celebrate 10 years of marriage in December, but Benny has been with R much longer and is his True First.

Benny last night

So this morning HR loaded Benny in his carrier for one last ride.

How difficult it is to say Goodbye.

Goodbye …

Baby Benny
Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 4/10/26

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. These incredible crab legs at the Tin Fin seafood restaurant near where we are staying for the week in Effingham County GA.

I just opted for a pound, but HR got the “All You Can Eat” Tuesday night deal.

2. Making new friends at Hunter Cattle Company near Statesboro GA.

Especially a friendly cow I named Betsy.

Here’s Betsy and HR co-starring in a little independent film I produced and directed, Good Moo Hunting.

3. Enjoying our last fire (probably) of the season at the farmhouse in southeast Georgia where we are staying this week.

Benny in my lap, both of us snoozing.

4. The amazing ability to remember.

5. Sensational cinnamon rolls from Ally’s Bakery in Rincon GA.

May you roll joyfully this weekend.

Posted in Tuesday Truth

Tuesday Truth: 3/31/26 “But?

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“But did you die?”

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On a bumper sticker Robert and I saw the other day as we were driving along Henry Street here in Savannah.

Oh my goodness, did that question and its underlying truth ever hit home!

I often find myself complaining about the LEAST little thing: “If only the temperature could be about five degrees cooler today!”

Or “I just HATE getting a stomach ache!”

But …

Posted in Thursday Doors

Thursday Doors: “Doors of Wellness” 3/26/27

Some years ago I came across two positive quotations which gradually have become a type of “doors” for my mental and physical health. If I remember correctly, I heard them from motivational author and speaker Louise Hays.

“My body knows how to be well and is always trying to move toward wellness.”

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“I listen with love to my body’s messages.”

Both exude such a rightness to me.

I have come to believe that our bodies are more than what we usually think they are. They have a “knowingness” and a “protectiveness” built into their very nature.

They tell us, for example, when we have been eating unhealthfully, and in the very telling, try to persuade us otherwise.

Or our bodies might alert us with shortness of breath or a sudden feeling of “something’s not right” when we are in the shadow of un-safety.

So yes, our bodies want us to be well AND to do a better job of listening to them.

They may seem small, but what wonderfully encouraging “doors” they are.

Posted in My Saturday Evening Post

My Saturday Evening Post: 2/7/25  “A Farmhouse Goodbye”

So yesterday, Robert and I cleaned up the old farmhouse in Southeast Georgia where we have been staying for the last month while our downtown Savannah place was being renovated.

Did the last of the laundry (no dryer) …

I actually enjoyed (well, for a temporary time) the sensation of hanging wet washing on the clotheslines among the Spanish Moss.

We started loading boxes and bags in the kitchen for the return trip.

Looked down and saw him …

Benny in the Box.

He was ready to go home.

Enjoyed our last fire (the place had no central heat).

Enjoyed our unusual but FUN time in the snow a couple of days ago…

Sampled the “attractions” in the tiny town of Springfield GA (pop. 2,874) …

Our favorite Coffee/Bakery/Breakfast place …

And outdoor in January grilling and eating between the cold spells.

A Joyous Adventure. Thank you, Universe/God/Whomever for Such a Splendid Stay.

And that’s My Saturday Evening Post.

Saturday Evening Post
Saturday Evening Post