Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 6/18/26

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts

1. My brother Lamar and me “decorating” our parents’ gravesite this morning in my little North Georgia hometown of Ball Ground.

2. Finally, after a decade, getting a new car.

Toyota Corolla HYBRID.

3. The ability to scratch when we itch!

4. Celebrating Robert’s birthday this evening at one of our favorite seafood restaurants, Atlanta Fish Market.

5. Butter.

May you have a delicious weekend ahead.

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Five Friday Happy Bringers 6/12/26

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. An abundance of Coleus!

2. Robert’s incredible “Sin-sational Chocolate Cake” at Savannah’s Gallery Expresso the other evening.

Decadent chocolate cream cheese icing!

3. Remembering joyful childhood summers.

4. The sky. It’s always there. Clouds, rain, storms, industrial pollution/smoke, etc. may come and go across it for a time, but the sky is always there. Holding it all.

5. Our simple vegetable dinner last night. Charred bok choy, oven-roasted yellow squash, and fresh ripe tomatoes.

I hope you have a delicious weekend ahead!

Posted in Monday Moaning or Monday Marveling?

Monday Moaning or Monday Marveling? 6/8/26

Marveling this morning at the Moving Forward of Life.

Recently, step-grandson Jack meticulously planned out a surprise marriage proposal and follow-up surprise engagement party for his beautiful long-time girlfriend Tori.

She said “Yes!”

(What on earth would he have done with all that food if she had said “No!”?)

The party was a blast at Savannah’s Isle of Hope Marina.

Tori told Robert and me that her engagement ring actually belonged to her grandmother, then to her mother.

Photos, of course.

Jack’s Savannah family, with Robert and me (Abu) on the far left.

Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 6/5/26

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. Our charcuterie supper the other night.

2. This crazy can of baked beans I saw on the shelf at a supermarket the other day.

Dr. Pepper beans?!

3. The joy of surprise.

4. Finding out, from Ancestry DNA, about my ancestral trail.

5. My new Wisdom and Clarity candle I light while I’m working on my Summer Memoir Course.

May you experience some Joy of Surprise this weekend.

Posted in My Saturday Evening Post

My Saturday Evening Post: 5/30/26 “Magnolia Blossom’s Short Stay”

The magnificent Southern Magnolia is in her full blooming glory this spring here in Savannah.

For a couple of weeks now, as we drove or walked by one, I would say to Robert, “We should get a few blossoms for a little arrangement.”

But the ivory white beauties always seemed to be above my humble reach.

Until one day as I was driving us home, HR semi-yelled, “Neal! Pull over!”

A couple of small magnolias with a few blossoms I could possibly get!

I plucked several and brought them home.

And how beautiful and aromatic they were …

… for the first couple of days.

But Day Three told another, darker story …

What?! Why?!

Staring forlornly at my Brown Bouquet, I immediately thought of Robert Frost:

Nature’s first green is gold,

Her hardest hue to hold.

Her early leaf’s a flower;

But only so an hour.

Then leaf subsides to leaf.

So Eden sank to grief,

So dawn goes down to day.

Nothing gold can stay.

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Thanks for the encouragement, Frost!

But I know he is right, and I know that I really did enjoy them for a couple of days.

But why did they and I “sink to grief” so quickly?

Google AI told me:

“Magnolia petals are highly sensitive to bruising, temperature changes, and handling. When picked and placed in a vase, the oils on human skin will quickly turn the delicate white petals brown. Additionally, the exposed, pollen-heavy blooms are prone to rapid shock, wilting, and bruising from air exposure.”

Oh no! Why didn’t I Google earlier? And what could I have done differently?

AI answered:

“To make your blooms last for up to a week, follow these quick-handling tricks:

Wear gloves: Handle the stems and petals using floral gloves or a clean cloth so the natural oils on your hands don’t transfer and cause bruising.

Strip the foliage: Remove most of the leaves along the stem, as they steal moisture away from the flower. Leave only the 4-5 leaves closest to the bloom.

Dump the pollen: Turn fully open blooms upside down and gently shake them to remove excess pollen, which otherwise speeds up decay.”

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And that’s My Saturday Evening Post.

Saturday Evening Post