Posted in Christmas Countdown 2023

Countdown to Christmas: 12/2/23 — “Exercise Generosity”

This year my Countdown to Christmas is a nontraditional Advent Calendar centering (pun intended) on mindfulness.

On the front of each card is neat little picture, and on the back are the instructions for the short meditation.

Today, Day Two of Advent … “EXERCISE GENEROSITY.”

Wait! Stop! That’s not the right type of exercising.

Here are today’s instructions:

They say the true meaning of Christmas is not receiving, but giving. Today, look for opportunities to be generous. There are many different ways that generosity can be exercised, and it doesn’t necessarily have to come in the form of material gifts.

It could be an act of kindness. Helping someone with a task, talking to someone who looks lonely, letting someone with fewer items jump in front of you in the supermarket queue – there are many openings in daily life to perform an act of kindness and feel the warm glow of positivity that comes with it.

It could come in the form of generous words. Try giving someone an honest compliment. Letting someone know what you truly like about them can really boost their morale. Be present in these small positive moments as your compliment is received. Pay attention to the reaction of the receiver, and also to how this small but significant act of giving impacts your own emotions.

Often, little chances to be kind and generous can pass us by when we are concerned with other things.

Throughout the day, make the extra effort to exercise generosity and see how it makes you feel.

Posted in Christmas Countdown 2023

Countdown to Christmas: 12/1/23 — “Look Out the Window”

For some reason, I came up with the idea of trying to find a nontraditional Advent Calendar this year as a way to honor the season. I have enjoyed various types and styles over the years.

whychristmas.com

I finally found online a mindfulness Advent Calendar in the format of 25 cards, each with a short meditation.

It just came in the mail! See?

On the front of each card is a cute little picture.

And on the back are the instructions for the short mindfulness practice.

Robert and I both started it today, with the first meditation, “LOOK OUT THE WINDOW.”

I chose our second floor hallway window.

Oops, let’s wait till that car goes by.

That’s better.

I invite you to join us on this Countdown to Christmas 2023 starting today and leading up to the 25th.

Here are easier-to-read instructions for day one’s little meditation.

It’s the first day of Advent! How Christmassy do you feel? Whether your answer is “very” or “not at all’, the big day is hurtling towards us and there will already be several indications of that fact outside.

Let’s get things started with this mindful seeing exercise. Sit by a window for 5 minutes and just look out.

First: can you see anything that signifies Christmas? Is there frost on the ground? Are there lights and decorations anywhere? Focus on these things. Do they increase your festive anticipation? Are there any signs of Christmas that you have never noticed before? What thoughts and emotions do they evoke?

Next: channel all your awareness into all the other things you can see. Avoid simply labelling things and moving on; for each object, no matter how familiar, observe the shape, the colour, the patterns and the texture.

Notice how the elements interact with the environment, e.g. how the wind blows the branches in the trees.

Try to imagine the view from the perspective of someone who has never seen such sights.

This exercise will help you see and appreciate your local environment and realise just how busy and complex it is.

I was so surprised at what I saw — when I mindfully looked — out that window. Decorations that I had somehow missed in Charles and Faye’s yard across the street, a little bird in the Live Oak tree, a red car, a family on the sidewalk with the toddler skipping, resurrection fern on the tree branches, dust on the window panes ….

See you tomorrow!

Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 11/17/23

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. Falling beauty. (Even in a Savannah shopping center parking lot.)

I had to look at this leaf for a bit before I started to see its aging beauty as well.

2. Belts.

3. More autumn beauty in Savannah.

The Kehoe House Historic Inn one square over from ours.

4. An early Thanksgiving dinner at our church’s Wednesday Night Supper this week, with ex-wife Donna and our good buddy Margaret.

We all just have SO very much to be thankful for! (Especially those garlic mashed potatoes with gravy.)

5. Covered streets.

May you have a cornucopia of joy this weekend.

Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 10/27/23

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. HR and I live in Savannah’s Historic District just off Washington Square (Savannah has 22), a few blocks from the mighty river.

This past Saturday, our square and ward held our 7th Annual Bathrobe Brunch. In memory of a local Washington Square resident who would wear his bathrobe out in the square, sit at a particular bench and work on his day’s business pursuits.

We wear our PJ’s and bathrobes, bring brunch treats and socialize up a storm.

Robert and I (well, I) chose a mismatched Halloween theme this year.

The food was incredible.

SUCH SAVANNAH FUN!

2. And later the same day, enjoying the Savannah Pride Festival.

3. Shoes! Aren’t they wonderful?! You don’t have to go barefooted. Do you own any?

My new Hokas.

4. Grandson Daniel winning the Best Actor award at last weekend’s South Georgia regional one-act play competition for his role as Peter in “Peter and the Star Catcher.”

(Not that I’m a proud grandad or anything.)

5. This very cool autumnal season.

Happy Last Weekend in October!

Posted in My Saturday Evening Post

My Saturday Evening Post: 7/15/23 “Skyward!”

I love the sky. It’s ever-changing. It’s mysterious. It has a mind of its own.

Over Barbour River earlier today when Robert and I were exploring the Harris Neck National Wildlife Refuge about an hour south of us here in Savannah.

The sky is sometimes is a bit of a thief, stealing some glory from lakes. Also at Harris Neck earlier today.

Last night at Waterfront Park on Saint Simons Island.

HR, two ships and the sky, about an hour before the above picture.