Posted in Encouragement

Nothing Gold

Robert and I live in an old 1800’s apartment building in Historic District Savannah, so we don’t have much garden space. But we do what we can. (Correction: HR manages most of the “doing.”)

Here’s our little Japanese maple as she decided to “seasonally change” her outerwear recently.

Isn’t she gorgeous?!

I told her, EXCITEDLY, that she was simply LOVELY in her shimmering gold, thinking she would receive the compliment graciously.

And she did. Sort of. The she smiled, as wise sentient beings often do and said with patience (which wise sentient beings often have): “Neal” (I was thrilled she knew my name), “seasonal change, as you call it, is a part of life. We all go through it.”

“And sometimes it strips you bare.”

“Oh Gosh”

My smile drooped a bit. I wasn’t really keen on that part of our convo.

“It’s a part of life,” she said with no trepidation in her voice.

Maple got me to thinking, and I know I have probably used this poem far too often in my blog, but it SO resonates with me, especially as I’m getting … older and “seasonally changing.”

Nothing Gold Can Stay

Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

— Robert Frost

Here are a few of Robert’s photos of Maple and her “seasonal change.”

May we all “seasonally change” so gracefully.

Posted in Monday Moaning or Monday Marveling?

Monday Moaning or Monday Marveling? 12/16/24 “Marvelous Bells”

I’m marveling this Monday morning!

A couple of months ago, as I was aimlessly meandering through my Savannah Historic District neighborhood, minding my own business and thinking about who knows what, I came across one of those Free Little Libraries. Do you have them where you live? I love them! The Universe speaks to me through them!

This is my routine when I see one.

I stop. Gather my wits (which sometimes takes a while). And then sorta yell (if there are no mental health professionals such as my therapist Rubi lurking nearby):

“Okay, Universe, here we are again! What do you want me to read this time?!”

Well, this time it was “Jingle Bells: How the Holiday Classic Came to Be.”

Isn’t this a pretty little book? And free! Straight from the Universe. 

Even though I had never heard of it, I was THRILLED when I saw the books cover. (It doesn’t take much to thrill me.) Wouldn’t you be thrilled? No, you probably wouldn’t be. So let me explain. Have you had your morning coffee?

Savannah has twenty-two uniquely beautiful squares in the Historic District (more in other parts of the city). And one of HR’s and my favorites is Troup Square near us.

I have walked through Troup a zillion times. I like the quirky globe in the center.

But the THRILL came from remembering this historical marker in the square near the Unitarian Universalist Church …

So it seems that James Lord Piedmont, music director of the church in the 1880’s, composed “Jingle Bells“!

“One Horse Open Sleigh” was the original title.

Well, after the Universe graciously presented the book to me, I put it away in my bedroom closet. Wouldn’t you? No? Here’s why I did: Robert and I have this tradition of reading several holiday books during November/December. I wanted to wait till Christmas was approaching to find out about “Jingle Bells.”

I pulled it out yesterday, harassed Robert until he agreed to accompany the book and me to Troup Square to Holiday Read.

We sat on a bench facing the Unitarian Church …

… and I ardently read to a mesmerized HR the fictionalized account of Pierpont’s birthing “Jingle Bells.” (Eliciting only a handful of pitiful stares from Sunday afternoon passersby wondering why that old man was excitedly reading a children’s book to that obviously entranced non-child sitting next to him.)

[Perhaps I made up the “mesmerized” and “entranced” parts.]

But the book really is fun, especially the scene during Pierpont’s introducing his new song at the church’s Christmas concert. At the “Dashing through the snow” line, the children of the church throw up clouds of white feathers to symbolize snow (since warm Savannah rarely sees the real thing).

So There. That’s why I’m marveling this Monday morn.

Posted in Delicious Joy

Boiling Joy

Tonight Robert and I started what we hope will become an annual holiday tradition: Having a Low Country Boil as a festive meal during the Christmas season.

What? You don’t know what I’m talking about?

“A low country boil is a beloved Southern dish with roots deeply embedded in the coastal regions of South Carolina and Georgia. This communal feast brings together a mix of seafood, sausage, potatoes, and corn, simmered together in a flavorful broth.” Alaskankingcrab.com

A Thousand “Yums”!

Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 12/13/24

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. Enjoying an Awesome Anniversary Meal at Savannah’s The Grey restaurant.

2. This little happy bringer I saw in a restroom recently.

3. A wonderfully festive little day trip to Days of Creation Christmas Tree Farm over in Jesup GA.

4. Our annual Holiday Lunch with ex-wife Donna at the very touristy, but still loads of fun Pirates House restaurant across the street from HR and me.

5. Simple Christmas Pretty.

May you find some simple holiday joy this weekend.

Posted in Five Friday Happy Bringers

Five Friday Happy Bringers 12/6/24

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.

1. Taking a photo of a glorious ginkgo biloba tree.

2. HR in a somewhat … regal moment.

Gainesville GA Botanical Garden

3. Always having enough food to eat.

4. Grandson Daniel on a weekend trip to New York, accompanying his Catholic girlfriend Amelie to mass at Saint Patrick’s Cathedral, and out of the blue being asked to help take up the offering!

Here’s what his mother texted me:

5. A quiet moment with Benny.

May you have some quiet moments of joy this weekend.