
I think my husband might be gay …


And from our wedding back in 2016 …


And that’s my Saturday Evening Post …


I think my husband might be gay …


And from our wedding back in 2016 …


And that’s my Saturday Evening Post …

After walking daughter Amy’s doggie Coastal in this crazy Savannah heat …



… she and I both needed a drink …


Lemon Drop & Cool Titos Bag


Coastal had to settle for water.

My weekly gratitude journal, of sorts.
1. Beautiful reflections (during a recent walk in daughter Amy’s neighborhood).



2. Rest. Sometimes you simply have to lie down.

Amy’s dog Coastal (named for their medical company, Coastal Care Partners) after Robert and I took her for a long walk in the South Georgia heat.

3. Speaking of South Georgia heat, how HAPPY I am for the blessing of air conditioning in Savannah!

4. Sitting near these Lively Ladies the other morning at a new coffee shop we were trying out near us, Foxtail Coffee Company.


They asked HR to take their pic.

We discovered that they are a group of ladies called “Savannah Newcomers,” which has been around for nearly 70 years! Most of the members are no longer newcomers, but they liked the group so much they just keep coming.
I asked if Robert and I could become members. They dodged the question in demure Southern Belle fashion and told us how happy they were to have met us. (I think that meant, “No.)

5. Walking to our car in the Publix parking lot yesterday …

… And seeing this:

For some reason, the view gave me pause and reminded me that life continues even in the starkest of environments.

May your life be filled with a bit of LIFE this weekend (in whatever way you define LIFE).
So I published this post yesterday …


But today I must add an addendum …

Hmmm. Does that mean Texas Republican Governor Abbott now thinks his Heroic Trump is a LOSER?

I know, I know. I’ve posted about okra before, but it really is my very favorite vegetable in all the world! And I also know that it is some folks’ very least favorite vegetable. (Although botanically, I understand okra is classified as a fruit.)
We picked up some local okra at the farmers market here in Savannah. And even though we don’t eat a lot of fried food, I simply HAD to fry the okra in the classically Southern manner.
I chopped the pods into beautiful little circles, added a hand sprinkle of water, a heaping tablespoon of flour, another heaping tablespoon of cornmeal, with several shakes of salt and pepper.

I then heated the oil until one of the little okra circles did a lively dance when I dropped him in my grandmother‘s ancient cast iron skillet.

The key to good Southern fried okra is to fry it in uncrowded batches. They like a little room as they swim in the hot oil.
Here’s a riveting video of my frying technique. Listen as the okra dances in the pan, similar to synchronized swimming.
I added Cayenne pepper for my second batch.
But what to serve with the fried okra?
Other fresh local vegetables, of course.
Vine-ripened tomatoes.

Red-eyed peas.

In case you didn’t know: “Red Eyed Peas” or “Red Peas” refers to a type of legume often described as an heirloom variety of cowpea, similar to black-eyed peas. They are a popular staple in Southern cuisine and have roots in West Africa. Google AI
Now it’s time to sit down and eat!

Delicious, Fresh and Local Summer Supper





Seriously?
A new blog category of what I find … pretty.

Sunflowers from last Saturday’s Forsyth Farmers Market here in Savannah.

I’m marveling this Monday morn at the absolutely amazing ability … TO READ! (As I often reiterate whenever I think about gratitude, everyone doesn’t have that for which I’m grateful.)

I love this little whatever-it-is. We saw it in the crafts section at Saturday’s fabulous Forsyth Farmers Market here in Savannah.
A delightful artisan creates beautifully quirky works of art from silver cutlery!

Sidebar: Robert fell in love with the tiny magnetic flower vases made from the hollow bottom sections of silver knives!


Okay, back to the “Reading” topic of this post. As I have shown before, here are our reading chairs in our study.

And here’s what I’m currently reading …

… a fascinating and “I-can’t-believe-I’ve-never-heard-of-this-before” look at the history of gay life in Brooklyn.

Because I’m sure you’re just dying to know, I usually read two books simultaneously: what I call my “short time read” (above) and my “long time read.” (The “long time read” is a book not intended to be read quickly or even from cover to cover.
Here’s my current “long time read”:

“Ohm. Ohm. Ohm. Ohm.”
My “long time reads” are often self-help about physical, mental, emotional or relationship health. Robert often says that one would think I would be in MUCH better physical, mental, emotional and relationship shape, having read “so much of this junk.” (I try to pay little to no attention to HR.)
I hope you find something that fascinates you this new day and week.
Happy Monday Marveling!



HR and a hidden garden in Savannah’s Historic District near us.


